Tao Thay Shang Men - English

From : Lay Cuen Liang
Question :
I am a Taoyu, one day while in Taokwan ( Tao Temple ) I had a Thung Sen ( Advice from God ) that my partner for life is someone I know, who is a Taoyu also. However if I analyze it is difficult to be together with her because of her stubbornness. Could this really happen? I am sure about the advice from God, but I am not sure that I can live together with her full of happiness. Thank you.
Answer :
First of all, I would like to correct the term of “Thung Shen” which you used before. The meaning of that term is “to communicate or to contact with God”. So anyone who is praying ( especially those who has Tao Ying Suk ) is capable of “Thung Shen”. In my opinion what happened to you is that you have a clue or been told about something from/by God. If you have another opinion after receiving the clue, this shows that you don’t lose yourself. The question is whether the considerations made are 100% correct? That’s the issue. How about your own character? Everyone has their own strength and weakness. “Strong” character isn’t always something bad. What more important is that there are still logical thinking, tolerance, good heart and a will to change own self for the better. So my advice is why not you approach and get to know her well first? And of course both party can try to understand each other, to be open and most important is sincerity to accept each other for what he/she is